Pinkish or blueish?

Ok, let's copy paste the article in Babycenter.com about having a girl or a boy.
As for me, I wish Allah give me girl for my second baby. But my priority is, normal delivery. Nevermind if I get another boy but pls Allah, allow me to have normal delivery. I wanna feel the joy of holding my baby when the gynae put him/her on my tummy. I wanna feel the pain eventhough I've gone through during my first. I wanna hear the soothing voice(when my baby cry) that relief the pain. Yes, all mommies said that the pain is all away when your hear that soothing sound,when you hold the baby. Yes, I wanna go through the same. Pls Allah,pls Allah.

Below, the article from Babycenter.com

Enjoy reading!

Choosing your baby's sex: The folk wisdom

If you want your baby to be a boy, should you eat more meat? To get a girl, should you treat yourself to chocolate? Make love under a full moon? Everyone's heard at least one of these stories, and we all know they're just urban myths, but...what if by chance one of them actually works? Couples who'd give anything for a daughter or a son may want to give one or two of them a shot (heck, it can't hurt, right?). We've collected some of our favorite folklore about how to make a boy or girl baby below. Share your own ideas in the comment box at the bottom of the page — especially anything that worked for you.

Your child is what you eat

According to folk wisdom, what you put in your body before conceiving may affect what comes out nine months later.

If you want a boy...> Eat more meat (the redder the better).> Stick with salty snacks — pretzels, chips, and so on.> Dads-to-be: Stock up on soda (especially cola drinks).

If you want a girl...> Both partners should eat lots of fish and veggies.> Give in to your chocolate craving (or just eat sweets in general).

The joy of sex

Quite a few old wives' tales about sex selection involve theories about the best way to make love if you want to influence your baby's gender.

If you want a boy...> Lie down after sex and stay there for a while. Supposedly that gives the boy sperm a chance to beat the girl sperm to the egg.> Make love standing up.> Try the rear-entry position.> Focus on his pleasure — if the male partner climaxes first, you're supposedly guaranteed a boy.> Give in to seduction — if the man is the one to suggest some baby-making, you'll get a boy.> Gals, sleep to the left of your partner.

If you want a girl...> Give the missionary position a go.> Make love with the woman on top.> Focus on her pleasure — if the woman orgasms before her partner, you can decorate your nursery in pink.> Take the lead — if the woman initiates sex, you'll get a girl

It's all in the timing...or the direction

In a society where lots of people still rely on their daily horoscope for guidance, is it any surprise that superstition and folklore also dictate when to make love if you want to pick your baby's sex?

If you want a boy...> Make love when there's a quarter moon in the sky.> Have sex at night.> Mark your calendar — more boys are conceived on odd days of the month.> Follow the compass — one of our users swears that pointing the woman's head north while you make love guarantees a boy.

If you want a girl...> Do the baby dance when the moon is full.> Make a date for love in the afternoon.> Get together on the even days of the month.

All in all, boy or girl is all in Allah's hand. I'll just pray that everything will be ok. I'm looking forward to conceive my second baby. We(me and hubby) think that its just abaout time to add a family member. Perhaps after our trip to Sabah this coming July,Insya Allah since hubby afraid that he can't enjoy the holiday to the fullest if me, the mak buyung already. To his horror I'm in the first trimester,gone case lah. Based on my previous experience, I'll pening and muntah for the first 4 months. So, to enjoy the trip to the max, don't get pregnant,ok. Wait until we're back from Sabah, hehe.Ok!